At this time in exactly a week i will be in the Dallas airport, probably crying, waiting for my plane to take me the short 3 and a half hours back home, back to Portland. (Man that's so weird to think about!!!)
Since i officially only have a week left, i think it's time to do some reflecting. By that, i mean willing reflection, because i have been doing it unwillingly for the last two weeks. Sleep has become something less and less known to me because i have so much swimming around in my head at night, i can't stop it to go to sleep!!! So many memories, so many faces, so many lessons, so much pain, and so much joy, NO WONDER i'm only getting 5 to 6 hours a night, and that's on a GOOD night. (The heat is also a MAJOR factor in this as well.)
I'm thinking a lot about both the big and the little things, but obviously the big more than the little.
I constantly think about the fact that I am forgetting things about home:
*What the voices of my friends sound like
*What it feels like to drive
*Details about my house
*The sound of my dogs barking or my chickens laying an egg in the morning
I’ve been thinking a lot about everything I’ve missed:
*Family birthdays and holidays
*Big Firsts like my Katie’s first day of college, Livy’s first water polo game, or Ari’s first high school play
*Family dinners where i have to raise my hand to get a word in edge-wise
*I’ve missed so much of the lives of my family and friends and I can’t ever get it back.....
I’ve been thinking about all the lessons I’ve learned:
*God FINALLY got it burned into my head that I am WEAK without him!!!!
*I’ve learned the hard way that I can’t do ANYTHING without God
*I’ve learned how to love people in ways I never before thought possible
*Thanks to the INCREDIBLE church I attend here, I have learned how exciting and breath-taking a TRUE relationship with Christ can be!!!
*I’ve learned so much about myself, and it’s all still so fresh in my head, I can’t even find the words to put it down on paper!!!
I’ve been thinking soooooooo much about all the INCREDIBLE people God has blessed my life here with. The family i live with, the family i spend most of my time with, and the family i have built with the AMAZING friends i have here!!!!!!!!!!!!
And i have also been thinking about the little things that i am going to miss so much. All the inside jokes that no one at home will understand, all the little accomplishments, all the little things i’m not going to have when i go home.
- (I have to brag a little, sorry) BUT I HAVE OFFICIALLY GONE MY WHOLE TIME HERE WITHOUT ONCE PUTTING THE TOILET PAPER IN THE TOILET!!!!!!! WOOOOOHOOOOO!!!!
- The laughs of my friends here that send me into a fit of hysteric laughter myself that I won’t hear again for who knows how long
- The sounds in the streets that have become part of life, like the annoying garbage bell, and the never ending gas song
- The feeling of waking up every morning knowing that i get to go to work in a place that God is BLESSING!!!
- All the INCREDIBLE DELICIOUS food that has almost killed me so many times but that i am still going to miss
- All the random, unexpected, often awkward or disturbing, conversations and moments with my friends
Also, i have been thinking about the little things here that i am NOT going to miss!!!!!:
- Not being able to walk anywhere without someone whistling, staring, or making a vulgar remark about my hair, skin, or body.
- MEXICAN TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- Not having a dryer
- Not being able to put the toilet paper in the toilet!!!
and many other little things
Truth is, right now, i don’t know what to do. I don’t whether to be happy or sad, to cry because i’m heartbroken or to cry for joy, to hold on to the people here until i can’t any longer, or to think about all the people i will get to hold on to for the first time in so long.
I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But i do know how to go about doing whatever it is that i decide to do this last week, have God with me in everything i do!!!!!! He is the only one who can get me through this time of grief that masks joy. All my trust is in him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!